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Be Confident And Positive


The months of pains, sorrows, and regrets had been passed. I can now smile and laugh heartily at how foolish I was before. And even question myself, how did I fall for an unworthy person. I realise that it happened for a reason. And only God knows exactly what is the reason all about. I haven’t left God or go away from Him during my hard times. I prayed fervently to help me not to hate people despite what they had done to me. God amazes me with His love and goodness every day. And I also realise that most of the time, my plan is not His plans. ISAIAH 55:8-9 says “For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways,” declares the LORD. “As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts”. I was planning to do this one, but He gives me a different one. And the one He gives me makes my heart melts and happy. And those steps that I had to make my plans into reality lead me into something that maybe God has planned for me. I didn’t realise it until I look at it back, smiling. I will allow God to do the plan for me and wait for it patiently because His plans for me will not harm me. JEREMIAH 29:11 says, For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future”. Even if my heart was broken many times, I have to gamble and trust again, because how will I know if he is the right one for me if I don’t give “us” a chance to know each other more. Be confident and positive, and the right one will be trapped. An only genuine or real person with a good heart can find a woman beautiful inside and out. We won’t know what a beautiful and happy life is unless we experienced difficult circumstances. And sometimes, our failures made us doubt ourselves and lower our self-esteem. But life is not all the time sad; we were just with the wrong one. Trust in God’s plan and perfect timing. Think confidently and positively. I am thankful to God for allowing me to experience His love and goodness in different circumstances. And I am grateful to my handsome big baby for radiating sunshine that helps me realise my worth as a woman.